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Perhaps I was desperately hanging onto one last shred of dignity by not completely letting myself go. High school was a very different story. At the time I probably thought I was wasting my time and after all I somehow believed she had given me permission. My parents didnt help by scorning me rather than trying to find out the reason behind it. For several reasons, I don't think she would have considered leaving me in dirty pants for the rest of the day.As well as it being unhealthy and unsanitary to leave me messy, she would not have wanted me stinking up the house and sitting at the dinner table or on the sofa with dirty pants. My phobia with public toilets was also part of my decision not to go, but the main reason was the challenge to keep my secret. And yet, despite all logic that would explain otherwise, I pooped my pants. A few months later, I saw for the first time a classmate wet herself with a huge puddle loudly splashing on the floor, and it was only then that I truly realized how much worse I would have made my already bad situation. I think she's kind of put off from it, doesn't think it's a big deal, and she doesn't do the laundry - so leaves it for mom to wash. good thing that came out of it was that I was never tempted to do it again. She was also directing her suspicions at my friends younger family members. Thanks in advanceif(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[300,250],'mamapedia_com-box-3','ezslot_3',679,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-mamapedia_com-box-3-0'); We havent been to her dr about this issue however I dont think this is the reason as she is quite regular (once a day) and its solid but not large and the poop in her underwear tends to be from a small streak to actual chunks of poop. On average, how much poo was in your pants? That just made me find way of hiding my problem and I became quite good at that. Hiding your poopy mess becomes a talent and a skill.i remember doing some pretty big messes in my underwear and diapers during that time. Within a few months of starting high school, I was doing it just about every day. Being good at keeping it secret probably would have excluded me from discovering it anyway. I'm sure you'll find a Everything was ok for the first couple of day until I realized I was very constipated and no matter how hard I tried nothing came out. Due to prolonged stomach aches his pedi did an X-ray - he was completely backed up. thing to do at the time. Hi Anonymous, Thats a feeling I can I understand.As I got older, I was very aware no one else was pooing in their pants as often as me. I can offer two theories about why you may have deliberately soiled yourself when you were upset or embarrassed, although neither of them applied to me. I got quite good at keeping it secret and that became a challenge for me, rather than admitting there was a problem. When she was 4 she went thru a stage where she would randomly poop in her pants, not fully but enough to get our attention which we eventually realized was the cause of the 'accidents'. Its associated to the truth that in periods of bodily stress, the physique shunts blood away from organs that arent essentially important at that second, Michael Dobson, D.O., a colon and rectal surgeon with Novant Well being in Charlotte, North Carolina, tells Psychological Floss. carried on playing. The correct answer is: True. I am pooped in my pants at my workplaces gym two times. The issue only really stopped for me when I started Uni at 19 as I absolutely did not want the issue of bedwetting and pants pooping to follow me. In the same way that you may did I do it? Share your travel pooping your pants and potty woes with your fellow travelers! p.s. My teacher smelled it when he came in, and I rushed to the bathroom to clean myself. I dont know anymore but I find it odd that its been about 6 months since the last time this has been an issue then all of a sudden 2 days in a row. All I had to do was explain myself better and she would have probably got me some medication. then instead of witholding i would crouch down and slowly push all of the poo out until i was sure i was finished. Nothing that I think has changed around here so it cant be a change in schedule and we just got her report card from school that says shes doing amazing. I was 8 when this happened and it took place at the No one seemed to realize and keeping it that way was my new challenge. Going to friends houses also meant sometimes getting invited to go places like the speedway or similar outings to that. Or perhaps I disliked the The only time I was tempted to intentionally wet myself was the one time that I accidentally had a full bowel movement in my pants at school. Whatever you decide to do, make sure to do it quietly and without attention because she is definitely feeding off the reaction. At the time I somehow took that as permission to continue rather than explaining how badly constipated I was. Yes I've done both 63 2 Sponsored by Excellent Town charlesandchase. One thing you could control was where you excreted when you felt the need, either in the toilet or in your underwear. thought of using the toilet when I already had a pooey bottom, and of pulling down or money to keep me entertained. Like you, I'm sure that I wouldn't have said anything about needing to go to the toilet. It felt normal to me. a low-fiber diet. The problem with that was those opportunities almost always seemed to be during class or while I was out doing something on the weekend. I remember some girl loudly saying; "who shat themselves?" Even with no large meal, the physique nonetheless secretes liters of fluid a day within the intestinal system, Dobson says. I remember being so embarrassed that this happened in front of my mates that I cried at my desk. The Science . she's barely 5, had a fairly common 'accident', and got grilled and shamed over it. Later when we were back at the place, we were staying she questioned me again and again I couldnt explain my actions. And then go from there Talk to the pediatrician. poo. Hi. This will get most of the moisture out of your pants and/or underwear. If she is doing it on purpose, I have no idea how to help, but DON'T ASSUME that this is the case. my underwear caked in my poo really brought home to me just what I had They do for me, as well as some of the other comments and experiences. That was only around 930am and we hadnt even finished the first of a full day of events, we were also going to a BBQ that afternoon at one of the relatives houses. That weight of the problem could be shaping the way you're handling the training. LOL: POOPING AT SCHOOL. "Julia, you pooped in your pants. then i would carry on playing. They couldn't afford to rent a house by themselves, and I seemed to be the key to their plan, so I agreed. When i was about 3-4 years old i pooped my pants quite often, mom wasn't happy about it, but i sure as hell was, in fact i didn't do it out of laziness, it'd do it just cause i found it fun, the warm poop against your butt would feel really great, usually i'd hold it till i was about to burst, squat, and then completely let all the poop fill my pants or diaper while giggling and loving having . i pooped my pants pictures. I too could be happy playing alone with nothing. Share the best GIFs now >>> One of them was during a Christmas party at a local park. The fairly small back garden had no grass, few flowers and mostly Thats when bother begins brewing. She was used to discovering that her son had pooed I found the cleaning up process highly embarrassing when I finally had to pull my dirty pants down so I was quite happy it being put off till bedtime and being left to my own devices in the meantime. panties. Were you always cleaned up as soon as your mum realised you'd soiled, James? Like me my friends were impatient, so taking too long meant catching up with them, wherever we were going. I never really considered age, but I think my Mum continued changing me for a few reasons. I really think I'd have wanted a hole in the ground to open beneath me if a friend's mother had questioned me about why I had soiled myself and why I hadn't gone to the toilet. SHE'S FIVE. If you asked me at the time if I was doing it intentionally, I would have disputed it but in reality, I was, especially during high school. Ease your child's constipation. She gave me medication that eliminated most of the odour and made me do my own washing. One is that is was about control. I think thats one of the reasons it became such an embedded habit and was so hard to break. It feels very weird. It was a good thing there was no-one in the next garden looking over, or playing in my freshly soiled pants. I got very good at keeping it secret and like you did it until my late teens. It was so embaraasing! Maybe it was my interpretation at the time, but it seemed like out of sight out of mind was my mothers approach. I would often be so caught up in what I was doing that I would be almost oblivious that I'd pooed in my pants, until the moment when my mum smelt me, which is when the shame of it would hit me. I was a little scared of getting caught by my workmates but thankfully nobody others not came to gym since somebody would surely smell what I had done. himself, but even she was shocked by how badly I stank. I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? This comment has been removed by the author. I took a "sportsman's chance" hoping it . High School Superintendent ARRESTED For Pooping On Rival School's Football Field On Daily. Another reason would have been that my birthday is in September, so I was 13 at the start of year 8 and this is when it concluded. The first place to turn to is your child's doctorshe can offer professional advice and rule out issues you may not see. Instead I would have tried to hold it in, probably soiling myself at the BBQ later, whereas you decided to do it in your pants, just as you had done many times in the past.You said before that your poop didn't have too much smell, so hopefully nobody found out what you'd done. My tighty-formerly-whities were bulging and hemorrhaging spurts of poop. Common causes of constipation leading to encopresis include: fewer than one bowel movement every three days. I would def have her tested for encopresis, have her checked. Sally's mother asked and Sally replied, "Mum, I've pooped my pants and there's more coming", so the car stopped very quickly and we both ran to the woods, behind a tree, and I helped Sally lower her track pants and red panties, before lowering my own jeans and underwear, and we both squatted side by side, holding hands as mud flowed out of our bowels. They probably thought boys would be too embarassed to discuss these issues in front of women. Attempt standing or mendacity down as a substitute. I'll never forget the girl who pooped herself while running in remote Cambodia or the guy who had to find a plastic bag to go in on the side of the highway (guess that's better than pooping your pants). It's a bit like an older child sucking their thumb, but rather more extreme. She made me come to the front of the class, pulled my trousers down and pulled the back of my waistband on my undies. That was usually late in the afternoon, unless I was told to, but that rarely happened. She would often tell me that she could smell me and knew what I'd done and would sometimes check me with a pat on the behind, but that would be it till much later. The conventional vary for day by day pooping is from 3 times a day to as soon as each three days. It was your way of dealing with your bodily needs while at school when you felt unable to use the toilets there. I don't know at what age my mother would have stopped changing me if I'd carried on soiling, but I've noticed that most kids who soil have to start changing themselves around the age of 6 or 7. Sweet relief. We almost had the same thing with my youngest but I was able to reel Dad in before it got too bad. http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Poop-My-Pants-On-Purpose/901933 Spinster Regular I dont want to live on this earth anymore. Like yours, my Mum would probably have changed me for the sake of quickness, while making it clear that she did not appreciate starting the day by having to clean my pooey bottom.We definitely seem alike in many ways. My teacher saw me walking funny and jokingly asked if I had made a load in my pants. would not now do so, as this would result in my accident being quickly A safe space for people of all walks of life that like to poop their pants intentionally or accidentally, or like to watch others do it. did not think for one second of using it. Adults assume that children have the vocabulary to communicate these concepts. Yeah. )I relaxed a bit too much and lost control, thankfully I didn't go all the way. We questioned her about it and told her we were extremely upset and clueless as to why she would do it and why we were back to pooping in our pants and sitting in it. For the first time ever I actually felt the poo The bathroom was next door to my bedroom, but I still avoided using it if I didn't want to stop playing or reading to do a poo.And I can remember occasionally putting my hand in my pants to see if I was messy, but I always withdraw them as soon as they touched poo. My parents thought I was lazy or doing it on purpose and going to great lengths to hide it only confirmed their belief. Like diapers or pants checks? That usually meant being a far distance from my house so when it came to doing number 2 I would just do it in my underwear rather that stop exploring or doing whatever I was doing. I agree, habits can be very hard to break. Now I'm a grown man and I go around putting shit on people's doors steps and light it on fire. The shortage of blood circulation to the intestinal system could cause lots of disruptions to regular operate. On the day at my grandmother's house I was already messy, so it was too late to avoid a scolding and an embarrassing clean-up.Like you, I also spent a lot of time playing on my own in my bedroom, and until my 8th birthday, had a lot of accidents at home as well as when out. I would take her to the dr to check it out. i suggest you stop bullying this child and get her a medical evaluation, and then work on helping her, not shaming her. Indeed, as I wrote in another post, just seeing a little girl in my nursery class being changed out of messy underwear made me feel better about myself for a short time.I'm intrigued to know what happened on this holiday you mention, especially as my final, and most embarrassing accident, happened on a holiday when I was 11. my life, I pooed in my pants on purpose. Now if an attempt to get to a restroom is made but not achieved, or enough forewarning is not given by your body, you would be ok to pee or poop your pants since you would be literally forced to do it against your own will. I told her if she runs out of underwear, I will buy plain ones like they have at school (the ones they give out after accidents- which is very undesirable to her) until I see no more "evidence". My Mum did it as a kind of punishment. I had this problem for most of Junior high to high school. I was lazy or doing it just about every day last shred of dignity by not letting! 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